Tantrums in public can be quite embarrassing, so we leave you this guide to be able to handle them without scolding.
HOW TO HANDLE TANTRUMS IN PUBLIC
When you have a young child, tantrums are part of your life and in such a situation, it is best to avoid as much as possible those situations that cause a tantrum. It’s easier said than done, but these tips can help you.
1. It is almost inevitable that your child will throw a tantrum when you take him to the supermarket if he is tired or hungry, so leave these types of outings for after nap or lunch. Don’t forget to have a snack on hand.
2. Frustration is one of the main causes of tantrums in children. If you know your kid is going to want ice cream the moment you stop by the store, think twice before you stop by. This is not submitting to your child, but predicting how he will react and weighing the possible consequences and the alternatives.
3. Avoiding tantrums is not always possible. Once it starts, it’s hard to make your child see reason. If you find a tantrum in public embarrassing, it is best to leave the place. If you get angry, yell, and even spank him, that won’t improve the situation, on the contrary. The best thing you can do is stay calm.
4. Leaving the place is the best for everyone, even for those around you. If you have to do something important, take a few minutes to breathe and continue with your activities. It is proven that children calm down faster the less people see. For example, a tantrum in the hallway is not the same as in the pediatrician’s waiting room.
5. When the tantrum passes, your child will need you to hug him and make him feel safe, as losing control can scare him. You can hug him but don’t change the rules after a tantrum. If you told him it was time to leave the park and he responded with a tantrum, it’s still time to leave when the tantrum passes.
6. People may watch them as the child throws a tantrum, take it easy! They may be sympathetic to you, not critical. Regardless of whether they look at you or not, remember that your child does not understand your shame. Keep in mind that your child does not throw tantrums in public to humiliate you, so treat him the same way you would if the tantrum occurred at home.
Keep in mind that the frequency of tantrums will decrease as your child grows.
Does your child throw tantrums?