We believe that men are insensitive to a love breakup. The truth is that although they react differently because their brains operate differently from women’s, emotionally, precisely this way of operating makes it difficult for them to process their emotions and experience mourning. This is what studies say.
MEN WHEN THEY END A RELATIONSHIP
It is normal to think that when men end a relationship they do not feel pain. But the truth is that they also suffer, there are even cases in which they fall into depression.
What to do when suffering from depression or to help someone with depression?
According to a study by Binghamton University in New York, men have a feeling of liberation when they break a relationship. For this reason, women tend to believe that “they are insensitive.”
It is common for them to go out with their friends, start to conquer girls, soon resume single activities. However, these reactions are just a way to “make up” your feelings of pain; of “covering up your emotions.”
The opposite happens with women: they immediately reflect their sadness and depression does not take long. But as soon as they overcome the bitter drink, they resume their social activities: they go out and have fun again.
The research that we mentioned to you pointed out that men tend to live their grief in a delayed way and therefore it takes them longer to overcome it. Because, first they denied their reality, in addition to the fact that culturally and socially it is frowned upon that the man throws himself into sadness and for a woman ».
The best thing always in the face of a loss is to take a period to live the grief, harmonize the emotions and regain strength to be healthy and, at the time, if desired, re-create a more healthy, conscious and wise relationship.