Follow these 5 tips to have good communication with your child, if you feel that he no longer pays attention to you or tells you about his problems, here is how to repair the situation.
DON’T LET ME BE A VICTIM OF YOUR STRESS
Your child does not understand why you are stressed, overwhelmed or nervous, even if it is difficult, avoid yelling at him, he is not to blame. Or, even if he did something you didn’t love, don’t discharge your frustration on him with screams or threats.
LISTEN TO IT WITH PATIENCE AND LOVE
If your child shares his beliefs, stories, dreams or fantasies with you, listen carefully. As “important” as the activity you are doing, put it down and turn to see it. Get down to their level and listen carefully, this will create a strong bond of trust, caring and understanding.
READ BEFORE BED
This moment is very precious for your son because he is close to you and he has your full attention. In addition, you create the habit of reading and thus help you have a better rest.
SET A GOOD EXAMPLE
What you do is more powerful than your words. Your son imitates you thanks to what he observes of you, he thinks you are an example worth following, so put it in your mind and be the best version of yourself.
RESPECT THEIR VIEWS
It is very important that you guide your child without trying to impose your way of thinking. Do not tell him that what he thinks is bad, together with find a better way to solve something.
Remember that your bad attitude generates insecurity in your child, if you yell or hit him, he will stop feeling respect for you.
Does your child tell you all his “secrets”?