Giving her a healthy self-esteem is part of this lesson. It’s about teaching your daughter to protect her self-esteem and even integrity, to choose to bond with people who respect her simply because of her human condition. So it is important to give him the resources so that he knows how to get away and put a stop to the louts.
A lout is defined as a coarse, rude, or vulgar person; lacking in tact in his behavior. Such a person is prone to hurt the feelings of those with whom he interacts and, in the worst case, he may exercise violence, in any of its forms: physical, psychological, economic.
Such characteristics are relatively easy to detect in adult men, but we know that the personality is developing from the earliest childhood and, although in children in general we tend to see qualities of generosity, tenderness and empathy, there are red spots that we can teach our daughters to detect.
RED SPOTLIGHTS
- A child who tends to use foul language , who speaks with rude or offensive ideas, for some reason is not learning to distinguish that there are only some situations and people with whom it may be appropriate to use “bad words.”
- The blows should not be tolerated or as a game, because it tolerates and encourages the use of violence.
- The constant derision towards others shows the lack of awareness that absolutely everyone deserves respect and consideration.
- The lack of solidarity and self – centeredness , which state that the child can not take into account or respond to the needs of others, only theirs.
- The aggressiveness in general. Nothing justifies or much less compensates a man to resort to aggression or even violence, instead of dialogue to solve problematic situations.
If you look, the constant of the previous red lights is the lack of respect for human dignity. What else can you do to educate your daughter?
- Every day show him that men and women have the same rights and value as people. No genre is better or worse.
- She is not a princess, but a woman as worthy, strong and valuable as a man.
- Let him express his opinions, even if they differ from yours. And to do it dialoguing, with tantrums or at the point of screaming.
- Teach her to always respect others, men and women, children and the elderly, just as she would like to be respected.