Although it affects some more than others, all babies go through this stage of fear of the unknown or of moving away from mom and cry as soon as she leaves. What can you do to help them through this stage?
It is what is known as the distress phase of separation. By 8 months, many open and sociable babies become more attached to their parents (particularly mom) and cry when they don’t see her.
HOW CAN I HELP YOU?
1. Don’t scold him. It is normal that you do not want to be loaded by another person, or stay with them even if you know them. Even people you know but haven’t seen lately can make you uncomfortable at this stage of insecurity.
2. When you are with him at home, avoid leaving him alone in a room, better talk to him from wherever you are so that he knows that you are still there and that you will return soon.
3. Give him freedom so that he can walk around the house on his own so he can gain the confidence to explore other places on his own.
4. Talk to the caregiver about this stage in your child. It is especially difficult to leave your baby in the care of someone else. It is important that the person who cares for him is understanding, patient, cheerful and imaginative (know how to distract him) and above all, that he enjoys the relationship with your baby.
5. Before you leave, it is a good idea to give yourself some time to be in the same space with who will take care of your baby and him, so that he feels that he is someone you trust. Then say goodbye calmly, give him a kiss, a hug and leave calmly.
6. Transmit serenity to the child, if you show him that you are calm he will feel more comfortable if he sees you restless, anxious, crying, worried… he will cry more.