Your role as a father is very important: your partner needs you and your son also. Since delivery, your family is a matter of three. Enjoy it to the fullest!
When a man becomes a dad, the role of his own father in his education becomes relevant. You can repeat a parental pattern by imitation or go to the opposite extreme by rebellion or reaction. Parenting is a new, stressful situation that requires a quick response to the unknown, but with awareness.
WHAT WAS YOUR DAD LIKE?
- Little responsible. If the parental role model you had was not present, you might be like this.
- Authoritarian. Screaming, physical punishment, offenses … you may have difficulty controlling impulsive behaviors.
- Workaholic. You never saw him for his work. Perhaps you also have a strong commitment to your work. Given the responsibility, you take refuge in your office also with the excuse of working for your child and family and giving them the best.
- Cooperative and egalitarian. You change her diapers wonderfully, you make the bottles, you wash them … seriously you have a great time!
- Outsider, I thought that children are a woman’s thing. Allow your child to become part of your life. If you go for a run, take your baby in the stroller, leave the “I” and turn it into “we”. Give yourself the opportunity to be different from what you lived.
Psychologists say: “In general, men have certain neutrality in their fatherhood, a different way of facing the relationship with their son and taking care of him; that is very enriching for the child ”.
We can all grow if we think about the situation in a way that allows us to learn. Feel more connected with your child: it will give you peace of mind and, in addition, these are the things that, like dad, you promote in your child:
- Independence.
- You encourage him to try harder.
- You support their physical agility.
- You encourage him to trust his abilities.
Finally, team up with your partner. Having the same authority to form a united front for the good education of your child is the best option! If the child perceives that his parents are contradicting, he will abuse the situation and his bad behavior will only bring him more disagreements. It is vital to be together and in agreement to ease the tension of exercising parenthood and enjoying it from the first day.