“I don’t divorce my son”, does this phrase sound familiar to you? Keep reading.
“I don’t get divorced for my son,” is that a phrase you have thought more than once? Are you no longer happy with your partner but are you still there for your child? Check out these tips.
BITTER RELATIONSHIP
A relationship where the members no longer get along or are not happy, only bitter, sad, angry, worried, prevents personal growth and is a bad example for your child.
You hurt your child more if he:
- Watch violent fights between mom and dad
- See that you and your partner never agree
- Hear that they are insulting
- Notice that they no longer touch or kiss
- You don’t have the example of a healthy relationship
HOW DOES IT AFFECT A CHILD TO SEE HIS PARENTS FIGHT?
When you grow up you won’t believe in true love
You will be suspicious of a partner
It will be hard for you to find a stable partner
You will not know how to maintain a healthy relationship
Could fall into addictions or bad company
It will get away from you and your partner as fast as it can
It will idealize a harmonious couple
“I DON’T GET DIVORCED FOR MY SON” … THE REALITY
What you should know about divorce
Yes, it is indeed a failure and it hurts, it hurts a lot to face reality. No one prepared us to live a situation this painful, where the illusions and dreams disappear, but you must go on, find a new and better way of life, first for yourself, then for your son.
IN ORDER NOT TO HARM YOUR CHILD ANYMORE, YOU MUST SEPARATE FROM YOUR PARTNER WHEN …
- Love and respect have been lost
- When you suffer
- There are more reproaches and sadness than happy moments
- No possibility of solution to problems
- They are stuck in a troublesome situation
- Increase tension, worry, sadness, anger, anxiety and insecurity in your child
WHAT SUCCESSFUL COUPLES DO …
They transmit happiness, security and stability to your child.
Everyday obstacles overcome
They work daily to be better
Strengthen their ties
They grow and mature together
They create independent and safe children
Making a decision of this nature is difficult, but make your mind and heart clear and decide to be happy, for you and your child.
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