At what age should you cover your nakedness as a father in front of your son? Discover the signs that will help you understand if you are making him uncomfortable.
HOW TO HANDLE NUDITY IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD
During the first months of the baby, it is comfortable for both mom and dad to bathe with our little ones. There are even parents who are used to being home without clothes. However, there is a certain age when children can show some discomfort in this type of customs.
THE EXPERTS SAY…
Alba García Barrera, researcher at the Distance University of Madrid, affirms that the nakedness of parents in front of their children is still an unsolved issue since some experts believe that it can cause future sexual problems; On the other hand, there are specialists who believe that it is the best way for the child to discover the human body.
THE SIGNS
In reality, there is no specific age for children in which parents must cover themselves in front of them. However, children can have a change in attitude between 2 and 5 years, and this is reflected in their body language with the following signs:
- Show a lot of curiosity about the body of mom or dad
- Rejects physical contact, such as hugs and kisses
- Seems excited
- Wants to touch mom or dad’s sexual organs
- Don’t stop looking at the bodies of mom or dad
- Asks many questions about the difference in bodies
When children display these signs, you may be perceiving nudity negatively and necessary action must be taken. Rather than talking to him and trying to explain to him, parents should use their intuition to know that their children feel uncomfortable since from a young age they begin to develop a sense of intimacy and privacy.
WHAT TO DO?
The best thing is to cover yourself in front of your son so that he also discovers the sense of personal belonging of his bodies and not create conflicts.
THE AWKWARD QUESTIONS
There are couples who have tried to cover their children from the beginning, but this will not prevent them from beginning to differentiate sexuality and maturity from other bodies. If you start to ask, it is best to describe without judgment, as you would explain another topic naturally, without going into great detail.
Something very important is that you should not show discomfort to your children on the subject of nudity and sexuality, because you could unintentionally inhibit it. It is best to be clear and respectful to convey a positive message to them and make them feel safe.
Has your child asked you questions about your body?