Organizing a child’s birthday party is one of the most beautiful and comforting (albeit exhausting) things you can do as a mom. It’s amazing to see your daughter or son’s happy face while enjoying his cake, his piñata, his friends, everything you have prepared on his behalf.
It all starts when you ask him if he is old enough to tell you, what will his parties want? So you start with the ideas, the preparations, the guests… but what if your son tells you he wants a girl-themed party?
Before denying him or questioning him sharply about his decision, talk to him, give him confidence and discover the motivation for his choice. We assure you that you will learn a lot from your child.
Dads can be a little more adamant when it comes to solving these issues, so before your child tells his father what he wants, talk to him, dialogue carefully, without prejudice flooding his mind.
One of the lessons you can give your children is that the world belongs to everyone and for everyone. We live in a time when we have the responsibility as parents to end prejudice, to leave stereotypes behind.
Let your children naturally explore and develop empathy with their peers, learn the importance of equity with their peers.
It is time for boys and girls to have the opportunity to wear the color they like best, to choose their toys and to use them freely, without fear of retaliation. Think that the most important thing is to educate your children to be good human beings, respectful and considerate towards others.