Yes, sometimes it seems like an impossible mission, but it is real: you can get your child to pay attention the first time!
These phrases may sound familiar to you phrases they may sound familiar to you: “You are very disobedient”, “how many times should I tell you?”, “I am tired of not being listened to” wants to do it. Followed by this, your nerves get on edge, your blood pressure increases, you scream and… your child starts crying. Result: total chaos.
It is totally NORMAL
Your son tests you, he knows that you will not explode until the third time you repeat the same order. It can be maddening, but it may help you a lot to understand that your child’s attitude is normal to some degree. Although tantrums start to diminish after 3 years and your child will be more flexible, his personality will also continue to grow and assert itself. All parents want their children to behave well and to listen, but repeatedly demanding something and shouting does not guarantee that it is reality. If in your house they usually repeat an instruction four, five or six times before deciding to intervene, your child will take those repetitions as the most normal thing. He knows that from the moment you ask him for the first time until you decide to act, he has time to run, keep playing …
WHY IS IT NOT CASE?
• Your child must learn from his own experience how far he can go and what his limits are.
• Try to affirm their much desired independence and see to what extent it is compatible with your authority.
Normally, all children are restless and scattered, but if you suspect a real anomaly (what they say at school matters), it is advisable to go to a specialist and answer questions.
THREATS ARE NOT THE CHOICE, THEY SHOULD NOT BE THE FREQUENT MODE OF COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR CHILD