The best way to not always end up in a tantrum is through love. We tell you how:
As part of their growth, little ones have to learn to tolerate their frustration and difficult and adverse situations. In order for them to do so naturally, parents should avoid overprotection and not abuse permissiveness, but also should not fall victim to mistreatment, scolding, yelling and violence.
One of the main causes of children’s low tolerance for frustration is their parents’ excess protection and permissiveness, leading to children not knowing how to handle it. On the other hand, parents must know that making children understand about tolerance to frustration does not imply using authoritarianism, they must refrain from punishing them physically and psychologically since these behaviors in parents lead to negative attitudes and violence towards a criticism, a comment, a call for attention or a demand.
Do not lose control!
If a child throws a tantrum, physical punishment should be avoided and other alternatives should be given to calmly resolve the internal conflict since parents must be role models for their children in managing emotions.
Parents must learn to lose their fear of the rebellious reactions of the little ones and without confronting them, with an attitude of calm, being tolerant and offering them support. When love, support and understanding are found between parents and children, it is easier to overcome any situation, no matter how hard.