The relationship between parents and children has always been one of the most important to deal with since from the time babies are born a bond begins to be generated that must be positive from the start.
As children grow older, parents have an obligation to learn how to interact with them, since if not, there could be a very bad relationship later.
Why are parents obliged?
Because they are the ones in charge, they are aware of what is right and what is not, they know that children must learn little by little and for the simple fact that they are their children.
It is very common that between the children and the father it is more difficult to generate a bond of trust, so the men of the home must put more effort into being aware of their children and avoid future rejections.
Moms are usually always on the lookout for their children, there is an unbreakable bond, so there will never be severe withdrawals unless there are too extraordinary problems, the reality is that Dad takes it more difficult.
The father must learn to have good communication and relationship with the children, without falling into consents and blackmail, neither in exaggerations or unnecessary scolding, that is why here we present some useful tips.
1.- PLAYING WITH THE CHILDREN
Play is one of the most important topics for children, as they begin to discover all the important aspects of their lives, their creativity and imagination are on the surface and although it may seem minimal for adults, they will be very happy that dad play something fun with them.
2.- TALKING TO THEM ABOUT FEELINGS
From childhood it is important to let them know that we care about everything that happens to them, the bond of trust begins from there, as they grow, it will be more difficult for them to express them, so we must take advantage of every moment of their childhood.
We can ask: How are you feeling today? What did you do at school? What can I do to make you happy? Do you want to tell me a secret? and questions like that.
3.- SPENDING QUALITY TIME IS VERY IMPORTANT
We must set periods of 30 to 60 minutes DAILY and MANDATORY to dedicate them completely to our son, daughter or children, whether it is to do homework, go out for ice cream, take him to do some activity, play or go out to the park, especially if your Children are pre-teens or teens, to make them more attractive.
4.- KEEP VISUAL CONTACT
Taking them to school, going to work, doing activities and picking them up is a daily routine that does not offer us the time necessary to stop, take some air and perspective and look our children in the eye. Whenever you can, whenever you talk to them remember to make eye contact. This helps build a connection and maintain it over time.
5.- IDENTIFY ISSUES OF INTEREST
Pay attention to what interests your son, daughter or sons, in order to carry out pleasant talks, they can also talk about the great questions of life, such as: Where do babies come from? What is death? , About love ?, Talking about these topics will also generate great maturity from a young age.
Other topics that children are interested in are the anecdotes of their parents, from when they were little, when they were boyfriends, funny stories about uncles and aunts, the lives of grandparents, remembering the trips that were incredible and many more topics from this kind.
Do not leave for tomorrow what you can do today!