It is not magic, just an effective technique to control those episodes that all parents want to avoid!
Most of the little ones go through a stage whereby crying, screaming and kicking they want to get what they want. Unfortunately, many dads give them what they want as long as it stops their tantrum, as it is extremely embarrassing when it is in public. And although it seems harmless, accepting their demands, this becomes a constant that creates tyrant children. To avoid it and not die trying, there is a phrase that will solve that problem. We give you a list that will help you to keep in mind when there is a conflict with your little one.
I already answered?
When your little one becomes demanding and wants you to buy him something or to do something, tell him calmly:? Not today, darling and give him an explanation that he understands why not if he continues to insist, tell him:? I already answered you ?, and do it every time I ask you. It sounds repetitive, but it works, as you will end up bored.
Won’t we discuss that?
Apply in the same way as the previous one, you must stay calm and just stay firm that you will not discuss more on the subject. Let him know that your decision is made, just talk and turn around.
Is the decision made and if you mention it again will there be consequences?
Again you have to stand firm, but you must prevent the tantrum, when he is calm you must talk to him or her and tell them that you will not get anything by crying, screaming and kicking and establish a consequence that only you and he or she knows, even when it occurs the tantrum and mention the consequence, he will immediately know what it is and think twice before continuing in that tyrant mode.