We have been taught that love can do everything, but what happens when it is not enough and there are other factors? For a wedding to happen it should be based on the affection, respect, honesty and love felt in the relationship. A story has circulated on the internet that shows how not being clear brings problems in the long run. This bride is considering canceling her wedding because her vegan fiancé doesn’t want meat at the reception.
In an article of Daily Mail, a woman wrote a letter to an expert, Jane Green, asking for advice regarding her problem. Therefore, she explains that her wedding will be in a few months, but that she has had strong arguments with her boyfriend over the preparations regarding the banquet, so You don’t know whether or not to continue with your link.
The letter
“My fiance is vegan and has been since we met, which actually put me off when we first met because I am a girl with a big appetite for hamburgers and meat. But fortunately she never came between us, not even when we started cooking together at home,” narrates the ‘confused carnivore’, as she called herself.
However, she says that when they started planning the wedding, He confessed that he did not feel comfortable serving meat at the reception.. Because? According to the promised, great part of his family is veganay argues that they would be offended even if they were near meat dishes.
On the other hand, she considers that Your carnivorous friends and family will be miserable attending a vegan event. However, when she mentioned it to him, he made it clear that his guests are the only ones who matter.
She says she feels confused, because her dietary differences have never been a problem… until now. Also, the way he is dealing with the matter, since He showed another side that the bride did not know. So, you are considering that it may be a mistake to join your life with that man.
“Is it stupid to cancel my wedding for a steak?” he asked the specialist at the end of the letter.
To marry a vegan fiancé or not?
Given the panorama, Jane Green’s response reveals something not so obvious: The problem is not whether to serve meat or not at the wedding, but the inability to reach agreements.
“It would be shortsighted to cancel your wedding over a steak, but the steak in question is actually an indicator of larger problems, which you are starting to see,” the writer wrote.
There is nothing wrong with being vegan, but there is not considering others in your environment. Additionally, Green believes that as adults, her family will be able to deal with people eating meat around them.
Then, he recommends talking to her to get to the bottom of her insistence and thus reach an agreement, since the wedding is just about the two of them. But, if he is not willing to give in, it is possible that the bride has discovered her great flaw. Therefore, if that is the case, It is better to be grateful for knowing it before getting married and not after.
Differences make us stronger, they make us empathetic and learn about other ways of life and thinking, but when there is no willingness, it does become a reason to put an end to a relationship. What would you do in this situation?
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