To immerse ourselves in the world of BDSM it is very important to be aware and understand that not everything consists of submission or practices that lead to sado, each sensation is different depending on the discipline that is practiced. On the other hand, during the same sexual experience you can carry out one or more variants of BDSM. Communication and boundaries are always yours, so it’s important to have it discussed with your sexual partner.
If you have not tried BDSM or you think that in Mexico there is no space for this JOY club offers a forum to share and experience the paths of pleasure from a different game with a lot of communication, fantasies and having a sensual setting.
Here we will talk about these points so that you can identify how BDSM can be practiced in a constructive way for you and your partner.
Bondage: let’s play with the senses
This term of the English language means slavery or captivity. This is about all those erotic practices based on the immobilization of the other person’s body to take total or partial control of her pleasure. In this way, a relationship of subordination is established, in which the individual who decides to be subordinate is subjected to the wishes of his partner. Under this preamble, excitement manifests itself from the unexpected and domination and control come into play, with the submissive part being at the mercy of the dominant role.
On the sexual level, bondage does not refer to dominating one sex over the other, but rather to at least one of them being subdued, surrendered or even humiliated, in order to provoke libido. During the practice paraphernalia is used in which ties with ropes, metal handcuffs or the use of bandages and gags, as well as any restrictive element that deprives any of the senses of the subject. In other words, by being blindfolded, not only do you lose control of everything that may be happening around you, but there is also that surprise factor of having no idea what awaits you.
Discipline: no breaking the rules or there will be consequences
This code refers to all those BDSM practices linked to a code of rules, punishments, behavior protocols or training imposed before the sexual game and under the consent of the participants. The objective is to generate a different environment that provides a more entertaining dynamic for mutual enjoyment. It is like when you are going to play a board game and you must follow some stipulated rules to win. Although it is necessary to consider that someone cheats and it can be much more sensual if in the erotic environment everything has a cost.
For example, imposing a specific position as a punishment to the submissive person for untying their hands in some foreplay is a perfect rule to ignite the ardor of the environment. The one who assumes the role of submissive will feel great pleasure in satisfying his “master”, while in the role of master or mistress the sexual impulse will be triggered knowing that in some way the submissive is being pleased! they can exchange perfectly, the idea is to have a good time and enjoy the experimentation!
At no time should those involved feel obliged to satisfy wishes that are outside the already agreed margins. In all cases, BDSM practices do not authorize the breach of a code of rules in which the actions during the experience are not sensible and consensual.