Video of a tiktoker exposes emotional control in a courtship through “rules” of a romantic nature.
Trends on relationships, “red flags” and “toxic couples” predominate on the network with narrative experiences.
Social networks have become a fundamental tool for millennials and centennials to understand that love is not always everything, as it is increasingly common for them to exhibit attitudes and actions of a “toxic partner” and even seek support from the community to improve their mood. However, there are also discussions on digital platforms that generate controversy due to comments that are considered “red flags”, such as those made a tiktoker by showing the 10 rules that her boyfriend must follow for their relationship to work.
A loving interaction between two different people is always difficult to build under the precepts of trust and respect, so mental health professionals analyze the different changes that lead to unhealthy relationships that reach significant levels of stress and discomfort. These studies and clinical practices also stand out among amateurs of philosophy and psychology, or rather Internet users, who are informed by specialist content creators.
Under these precepts, it is defined as “toxic couple” to a relationship in which at least one member has inappropriate behaviors and attitudes, which may psychologically or physically harm the other person; and they are precisely the calls “red flags” all those actions that cause affectations.
And it is that the topic is more common than it seems, beyond the irony and game with which unhealthy relationships are talked about in networks, because In Mexico alone, 76 percent of adolescents between the ages of 15 and 17 have suffered some type of psychological dating violence.17 percent sexual, and 15 percent physical, according to the World Health Organization (WHO). Internationally, 3 out of every 10 young people go through a stormy relationship.
Decalogue of a toxic
Natalia Reyes (@thefreakshowcircus on TikTok) is a young woman who went viral and generated controversy on social networks as “the toxic God level”, named by Internet users after she published a video in which she exposes all the prohibitions she placed on her boyfriend.
And it is that, in the “10 rules that your partner must take into account for the relationship to work”the young woman frames points that many consider violent and demeaning.
The clip already has more than 400 thousand “likes” and about 2.4 million views, in addition to a complementary part that seeks to clarify his perception of love in the face of controversy.
Natalia admits that her own friends described her as a “psychopath” when she told them about the conditions, but that she is not worried as long as her future suitors are aware of the requirements they need to be with her, because whoever does not comply to the letter with their Norms will disappear from your life.
@thefreakshowcircusIf you dated my man after me, YOURE WELCOME 🤗
The first and one of the most important points is “Block anyone with whom you’ve had a romantic interaction”, that is, eliminate people from their past social networks. But not only to those women with whom the couple had a relationship, but also to all those women with whom he could have had some kind of affair: “Obviously, the people you’ve slept with is a no. If I find out you held a slut’s hand and you’re still following her, you’re done.”.
Among Reinoso’s list of rules, the young man who steals his heart cannot follow new women from the day they start dating, nor search for girls’ names on the web or digital platforms.
“All men know that girls don’t like this, so the fact that you continue to do it knowing that women all over the world don’t like it, this is worth a slap, so point. It can not”, explained the tiktoker.
As expected, the reaction of the users was wide and varied, generating debate about the treatment that the man was receiving in the relationship and those who were willing to put up with an “exaggerated” form of control.
“I think if you trusted your partner, the idea of asking them these things would never even cross your mind.” taylor barker
“Setting limits is a healthy thing. If both parties agree to that, why not?”, Rosalie
“If I feel the need to give my boyfriend RULES like that, I already know I shouldn’t be dating him.” Read
“CYou start this video talking about your male friends… So you are allowed to have male friends but he is not allowed to interact with women?, lillie
“This is giving off the same vibes as that guy on the podcast saying a girl shouldn’t have Instagram if she’s in a relationship.” Dorianna Olsen
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