It is true what they say out there: the words hurt many times more than the blows.
Violence is often not only physical, but our words when wanting to educate children can also generate insecurities, low self-esteem and various emotional problems in children. We tell you the phrases that you should never say to your children.
Learn your brother @?
Never compare your children, each one has their talents and abilities. Respect their individuality and let them know that they are different, but they are both intelligent and capable of doing whatever they want. Furthermore, comparing them only generates rivalry between them.
You are small, you don’t know how to do it !?
With this phrase you create insecurities and instead of giving him the power he needs to grow with confidence, you make him insecure and no matter how old he is, he will know that he will always be small to achieve what he sets out to do. Empower him from a young age and if he doesn’t, it’s best to understand that sometimes you have to try many times before you do.
When you are mom or dad will you see?
That gives motherhood or fatherhood a negative connotation, never do it.
Curse them
As angry as you are, you must control your words. The hurtful words or rudeness are a very strong verbal aggression that will affect your self-esteem and will grow with a strong resentment towards you and even everyone.
Give me space, don’t you hug me so much?
Never reject the displays of affection, the day will come when you want a hug and if you educated him to be distant, he will grow this way and when he has his own family, he will be a distant father or mother and incapable of giving love.