Do conversations with your crush make you nervous? Don’t worry, you are not alone! It has happened to all of us, because even if they are chats by message, there are usually awkward pauses, abrupt changes of subject or even comments that can be a little uncomfortable and it happens that you no longer know what to answer.
That is why today we are going to share some perfect answers for all the messages that your crush sends you.
When he asks you about something from school, type:
- Did you do your math homework? I do not understand anything. 🤯
Answer something like:
- It also cost me a lot of work to understand, but I think I deciphered it, if you want we can make a video call and I’ll explain. 📱
In this way they will have the opportunity to connect more, compared to just handing them the task or answering like this: “If you want I’ll give it to you.”
If he asks you about your ex:
- They told me that you were with “insert your ex’s name here”… 🤭
You can answer:
- Yeah, we dated for a while and it didn’t work out in the end, but I learned a lot from that relationship. 😉
You are not denying anything, you are not speaking ill of your ex, on the contrary, you are showing maturity by admitting that you learned from that relationship.
If she makes a bad comment about one of your friends, like:
- Karla never shuts up, she talks up to her elbows, I don’t understand why nobody says anything to her 😡
You can say:
- Umm 🤷, I didn’t realize it, I really like her.
Sometimes it may be easy to get intimate with someone through gossip or even speaking poorly about other people, but it is not healthy at all, it is even possible that he will end up speaking ill of you later, so reconsider if you really like him; do not forget that a friendship is worth more than a temporary relationship.
When I share something good with you:
- I learned a new song on the guitar 🎶🎵
Tell him:
- That Father! Send me a video to listen to it 💃
And if they are talking about a party and he asks you:
- Are you going with someone to the party of -insert a name-?
You can tell him:
- It would be great to go with someone to dance the night away, but I have no plans with anyone; What is certain is that I will have fun. 🎉
The key here is trust, to see that you do not depend on anyone to have fun; although, you are not refusing to receive an invitation either.
And if one day comes and tells you what you least expect:
- Hey, do you know if “Karla” is dating someone? I would like to ask her out.
Just tell him the truth, what you know. We know that it feels horrible that the person you like is interested in someone else, but you can’t do anything about it, the best thing is to let go… put your cell phone on mute and don’t answer anymore, you won’t become the “cupid” ” of that relationship.
Remember that messages can reveal a lot about people, so pay close attention to what they write to you, you can discover good things, but also red flags that will indicate that it is better to stay away. Also don’t forget that relationships need face-to-face time to grow, to really form, so don’t let it all just be text messages if you’re really looking for something more; Of course, only if it is reciprocal.