Spiritual weddings are becoming more and more common because they represent the definitive union of love between two people who decide to share their lives, so when the time comes, these ceremonies emerge as the favorite option, especially since it is not opposed to other religious rituals, however, when representing a deep and lasting union, it is common for the couple to ask themselves, “how do we know if we are ready for a spiritual wedding?”
“First, they should know that the fact that they are considering the possibility of having a ceremony of this type is already a very positive sign. There are couples who carry out the legal, religious and spiritual process, which represents a commitment on the physical, emotional and energetic plane, however, you can choose to have only a spiritual wedding and also represent the definitive union. It all depends on how they feel about it and that what they decide, they do it with their heart”, explained Panterita, a spiritual guide, who then delves into the subject.
Reasons
According to the spiritual guide, in order to know if they are ready, it is necessary to analyze the reasons why they want to make the union, being that connecting beyond the physical, as well as protecting and cultivating a deep love that transcends this life, are some of the highest vibration wishes that give the green light to the ceremony.
“It is not about having a perfect love, but that they are willing to work on the relationship and that there is a genuine desire to maintain the connection on all levels, the spiritual being the base from which their love grows and lasts. ”, explained Panterita. Other signs that the couple is ready are the following:
- There is good communication and desire to strengthen it.
- There is patience and empathy to understand the differences, or at least the desire to develop them.
- They are able to let go of control, anxiety about the future, and flow with their circumstances.
- They are seen together in the far future.
- They want to apply spiritual meditation techniques, chakra alignment, gratitude, among others, to maintain balance both individually and as a couple.
Different Rituals
For their part, there are several rituals that make up a spiritual wedding, as well as different types, depending on the spiritual guide who performs the ritual. In some cases, the temazcal ritual is performed to purify the soul and spirit before the wedding, and to leave behind energies from previous couples. “In these rituals, the presence of the elements is very important because they will give us the strength and energy that the commitment between both souls requires, to be blessed in this life,” explained Panterita.
The votes
For their part, vows are a very important component of spiritual weddings, since one must be aware of the power of the word, so the couple must meditate on them and write them in advance, in order to capture their feelings and good intentions, which are broadcast later in the ceremony. Likewise, godparents play a very important role, since they are the personification of elements such as abundance, fluidity, thoughts towards the other, or new beginnings, so the choice must be based on their energy and the representation of their life.
“There are various components in weddings, as well as Celtic or Mayan origins. I specialize in spiritual weddings of Mayan origin, where the power of the elements is used to make the link, as well as the seven directions of the Mayan universe (heaven, earth, east, south, west, north and center), in the that the godparents, one for each direction, deliver gifts to the couple, and in which the flowers, candles and other objects of the ritual are kept by the couple. Each couple chooses the guide and the type of ceremony that best suits their energy.
Finally, remember that once you perform a ceremony of this type, it is recommended that spiritual development guide the lives of both and help them stay on the path of balance and love. Many congratulations if you are about to get married, and blessings of love, light and divine energy”, concluded the guide on spiritual weddings.
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