The first call is of great importance throughout your day.
According to specialists, the way to wake them up has a strong impact on them since their brains need? Call? before you can respond with the result. And that call comes in the form of an emotional connection.
In the book? The Whole-Brain Child? Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson explain that the structures of a child’s brain take 20 years to form, along with the paths that connect those structures, which allows us to behave logically in the face of emotion and being able to act instead of responding instinctively. Dads must emotionally connect with their children before asking for anything.
And no matter the schedule, what matters is how you wake up your children. They don’t pretend to forget how to dress or tie their shoes, their brains need emotional connections to form neural connections. So it is important to take the time to wake them up slowly and gently, it is not an option, it is a necessity. They need the security of that emotional connection so that they can face the next day in front of them.