The sibling rivalry is often natural because they are competing not only for Mom’s love, but also for their source of survival. For this reason, it is in your hands to help them have a good sibling relationship.
WE GIVE YOU SOME TIPS TO HELP THEM
Establish alliances: if mum has to take care of the baby, dad and the older brother can make all those pending plans.
Avoid the injustices of third parties (family or friends): the older more gifts because, overall, the little does not know. Or vice versa.
Protect them from comparisons that undermine self-esteem and generate competitiveness among siblings: “look, the baby is quiet, let’s see if you do the same”.
Open the communication: listen to them by showing your feelings about your brothers. Teach them to express themselves and to be respected without violence.
Make them proud of the place that each one occupies in the family: adapt the rights and obligations to the age and character of your children.
Spend time exclusively with each of them.